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As You make peace with you, the dynamic with those around you evolves, fast.Β
We learn to live with an open heart, so we feel the vulnerability and heartbreak when it happens, but we also feel the friendship, the support, we share love, we naturally care for others. All because we are at home with ourselves, connected, supporting ourselves, building peace with ourselves.
My relationship with everyone around me, begins with my relationship with me.
When I first began this work with energy, with emotion, with the heart, I was surrounded by dysfunctional relationships and miscommunication. The other people didnβt change, and I didnβt cut them out of my life. I worked on me, and I continue to work on me. I was the common denominator. It took what it took for me to be honest with myself and acknowledge βI am the problem hereβ, and with that comes the realisation βI am also the solution.β
If we cannot acknowledge our role in bad relationships, then growth and healing is unavailable. I donβt try to figure out why this person is in my life. Rather than getting lost in theories and voodoo or blame, the reality is theyβre here! I have work to do.
Itβs All You
It ainβt the other person dear reader, itβs you.
After-all how are you going to change all the people around you? Surely thatβs impossible!
Iβve been developing my work with clients for years, and itβs an ongoing process. Iβve been through it all, you know my story, Iβve been to hell and back before I began working with others.Β Yet the gift these days is that I can sit with a client and feel totally present and at ease, and I get to see each person get free, I see the transformation again and again. The circumstances of each individual may differ, but I know the emotions intimately, so intimately that they are my friends, they are valid pieces of me, welcome pieces of me. So if we work together, Iβll gladly go there by your side, and Iβll teach you to walk through that fire yourself.
Freedom does not lie in happy thoughts and cozy emotions, freedom lies in being able to navigate through all that life throws at us without being broken by the journey.
Whatever small or large challenges youβre facing, it is our limited thinking that keeps us in suffering, locked in prison. With a little clarity, a different perspective, a new way of being can open up very quickly.
This work works, Iβve seen it change people deeply too many times. But if you stop doing it, as a close friend said to me years ago βAll bets are offβ.
And that is why I continue to deepen this relationship with Self.